Relationships and self-realization

We deserve to love not the perfect person, but the perfection in us.

Our relationships with others are a constant challenge. Through them we have the opportunity to discover, create and develop our strengths. Without them, we cannot reach the greatness of our own potential.

In the absence of all others, we do not exist.

We construct ourselves consciously and subconsciously as a result of either the events of life or our choices and reactions to the circumstances.

“You can choose to be a person who is the result of either what has happened to you, or your choice of what to be and how to act in relationships to what has happened.” – Neil D. Walsh

True awareness happens when our choices are understood reactions to life’s circumstances. When we make thoughtful choices about the way we behave. Thus our personality becomes conscious and is not the product of the actions of others.

Our relationships, including the romantic ones, fail when we enter into them driven by reasons that formed on the basis of benefits. This is not a conducive to their survival and leads to our suffering.

The real purposes of human relationships is to build personal qualities that we would like to see manifest. Our relationships are the foundation of who we can be and who we are.

In romantic relationships, pressure is put on the partner when we declare that we were “nothing” without him or her. This creates tension because striving to satisfy the desires of others leads to exhaustion.

When we thing that someone completes us, we fool ourselves because the purpose of relationships is not completion, but sharing our own wholeness and meeting our dreams and hopes.

Functional human relationships are built on a foundation of love for ourselves. It is the realization our dignity. Only in this way we can see someone else as equal.

The purpose of a relationship is not what we can gain or lose, but what opportunities the relationship will give us. Only in this way we can grow, develop our potential, heal, and make the right decisions for ourselves and others.

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